“My threshold for, like, bullshit with men is just…I don’t have one anymore. I just don’t care.” “In relationships, you have to…I don’t know…you’ve got to move together, I guess, as much as you can.” - Lady Gaga, from the documentary, “Gaga: Five Foot Two” My fellow Monsters, I have been struggling so hard for the past few weeks to complete this post. It’s probably the most difficult piece I’ve written in my entire life. It’s not a happy post; I just don’t have one of those in me right now. I’m not sure when I will have one. The most challenging part of sharing what I’m feeling compelled to say is being entirely honest with you, my Little Monster family. I think maybe it’s part of human nature to want to make yourself look as good as possible when you’re telling your side of a story like this one, where there are (at least) two sides, and those who are hearing or reading it will form their opinions of your part in it as they follow along. It’s tr